Problem with order form

I have two problems:

1. at the stage of ordering by the customer in the order form you do not see the option to select the province – without this the customer can not place the order. There is simply no drop-down list. And this is a mandatory field.

2.Also the order form – it is checked by default “send to another address” I do not want this form expanded by default. I want the customer to check only when he wants to another address.