Hello,
Firstly, for the Social media icons there are two possibilities i.e. Share and Follow.
Now, in the Header Builder, when you add the Social buttons element > you can first select the above option told for them the Share or Follow.
Then you can go to Style tab of the Social buttons element > there you can select the available options related to their styling: https://snipboard.io/MfycgE.jpg
Further, to enable or disable the Icons in it, you can go to Dashboard > Theme Settings > Social profiles > in that open the Link to social profiles sub-tab > in that you can define the links for the Social platforms that you want: https://xtemos.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/links-to-social-profiles-wd-7.jpg
And if you want to enable or disable the Share buttons then you will need to open the Share buttons sub-tab > there you can enable or disable the available buttons: https://xtemos.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/share-buttons-wd-7.jpg
Best Regards.
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